One of my biggest pet peeves is when someone leaves the room door wide open especially when I am trying to sleep. I am a very private person and mostly keep to myself and other people looking at me tends to put me on edge, my roommate makes it a habit to leave the door open even when she’s leaving for hours at a time. I’m pretty sure she knows it bothers me because there’s been plenty of times she’s done it and I’ve closed the door while she was around. I think she might be testing me and I guess if I felt like she had a legit reason for constantly leaving it open I would try and get over my uneasiness and make a sacrifice but I don’t see any reason why she does it. She even changes with the door wide open, and with me even if the door is closed I still wrap a robe or towel around me when I change. The other day I woke up to shower while she was getting dressed and when I came back into the room I closed the door and she opened it and left (and of course she left it open). I don’t know maybe she expects me to close it for her.
Another thing with her is she is constantly staring at me and I literally feel like i’m under a microscope. She’ll sit on her bed and turn and look at me for a good 5 seconds then turn away. This doesn’t bother me as much as the door thing but its still uncomforable.